Nerds and Sex

Help me out and vote for a sexy picture.

Let me back up. Last week, I accepted an invitation to read at an upcoming edition of the deliciously naughty In The Flesh Reading Series hosted by the one and only Rachel Kramer Bussel (of both Penthouse Variations and Cupcakes Take the Cake).

Asking you to help me pick a sexy photo is funny because I usually go out of my way not to promote myself and my writing based on how I look. But Rachel needs a photo to promote the reading I’m doing on April 15 for Nerd and Sex Night. (Nerd and Sex night! Isn’t that awesome!!)

Anyways, please vote for #1, #2 or #3 IN THE COMMENTS. You can retweet this, post links or whatever, but please leave a comment HERE so I can count the votes tonight and send Rachel the photo and a bio for event promotion purpose.

Option #1 -- "Diamonds on ma neck, di diamonds on ma grill."

Option #2: "Tumble Into You" < I stole that caption from someone.

Option #3: Urban Débutante (Photo Credit: Nick McGlynn)

I have no idea what I’m going to read yet. I haven’t ever written anything about nerds and sex. But here are a couple of things I have written about sex.

The first thing I ever wrote that truly scared me, and the piece I am most proud of:  Snapshots: Heat and Porcelain

The most graphic post I’ve ever written (I  just made this open to the public to read again last night): Copper Kisses, AKA the IUD Blog

Vote away, kids. Think hot and nerdy.

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PS — If you’re in NYC, please put my reading on your calendar. It’s April 15th, 7 p.m. at Happy Ending Lounge.

23 Responses to Nerds and Sex

  1. YAY so happy you’re reading! You’re sorta perfect for it.

    They’re all sexay, but I love #2. Unexpectedly gorgeous and sexy.

  2. I like #1! Just an explanation – I started adding author photos (though it’s not mandatory) to give a little more personal feel when strangers are browsing the In The Flesh site, rather than just boring bios and links. I think it adds a nice touch BUT I don’t want anyone, especially you, to feel uncomfortable about it.

    Anyway…I’m so thrilled that you’ll be joining us!

    • R– this is one of the times when it’s totally appropriate and fun to promote something I’m doing based on looks! I will enjoy every minute, I promise you. Thanks so much for making me a part of this!

  3. I’m all about #2. It’s got that whole “just took a romp in the bedroom” look.

  4. You don’t look nerdy at all, but #2 is definitely HOT

  5. Phot numba 2. Bu there is another photo of you i really like i think it may have been one of your twitter profile pics. I have seen a shirt that read: Nerds do it better

  6. I’m partial to #2

  7. Again I vote for #2

    Good luck

  8. Photo number 2 Sis, there isn’t even a close second. No pun intended, I think.

  9. #2 is the winner. It says mysterious exotic beauty.

  10. Um…I like #1.
    Not sayin’ that #2 isn’t the hotness, but I prefer 1.

  11. …actually, i like the pic you used for this blog… i’ll list it as #4 lol

  12. I vote for #1

  13. #2, definitely, then #1.

  14. totally two. But they are three very different “brands” of teh sexy. #1 is so glam it might scare the nerds away; #3 adorably looks like you’re about to bust out laughing, which could also scare nerds away. #2 doesn’t feel like you’re posing. It’s the only one where you aren’t pulling back from the camera. I like it best.

    HOWEVER… popping over to the in the flesh website, the first one fits in best with the headshots already there. Design nerd here. Context important.

    However, the peeps seem to have spoken loud.

  15. I admit that #2 is the “sexiest” but I personally like #3. Am I the ONLY one who voted for #3? I like #3 b/c you are smiling…

    DJ Waldow
    Director of Community, Blue Sky Factory
    @djwaldow

    • My favorite depends on the day, but of the three photos, I was definitely having the most fun in #3. It was at a friend’s birthday party and that was a new dress. It was fantastic. Thanks for the rebel vote :)

  16. I like #3 because you look so happy, but #2 is definitely sexier. It’s the eyes and the hair, I think…

  17. I might be too late to vote, but #2 is so incredibly sexy with that bedhead, sultry feel about it. I think that photo on your MySpace might just be what made me fall in love with you.

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